Dec
31

Body Language

How you move your body affects both how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself...

There has been a lot of research done about how body language affects the way other people perceive us. Move like an confident alpha male and you will very likely have a very different response from other people. New research from Harvard scientist, … [Read more...]

Oct
24

It’s Not Just About Approach Anxiety

Is your approach Anxiety, Shyness? Fear of Rejection? or Fear of a Woman's ANGER?

Ok. Scot Mckay, Author of“Deserve What You Want” and “The Engineer’s Guide To Being Cooler Than The Sales Guy” is on a freaking roll the last few days... Just like my last post, this one is inspired by one of Scot's newsletter issues. I'll … [Read more...]

Oct
17

Shy Guy Help: Can Questions Stop Approach Anxiety?

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I was reading a newsletter article this morning by Scott McKay, Author of "Deserve What You Want" and "The Engineer's Guide To Being Cooler Than The Sales Guy" which asked the question "Are you too safe?" Essentially he pointed out the obvious (which … [Read more...]

Sep
11

Why Women AND Shy Men Have Approach Anxiety

How NOT to approach a woman on a train....

A friend of mine just sent me a link to an article by a young woman who was "approached" abusively on the subway two different times in the same ride. I also had a conversation with some friends and a waitress last night about guys who hit on … [Read more...]

Aug
14

Shy Guy Help: Domineering Ex Has Put Me Off Women

Do you attract angry or domineering women?

I got this email the other day from "Sam" (not his real name). He is struggling with shyness, self sabotage and a domineering ex. With Sam's permission – instead of answering his email personally so that only he gets the benefit I thought it would be … [Read more...]